The Planning Trap
/Being awake is about having presence of mind, which means that your mind is in the present. The practice of presence of mind is not to be in the present exclusively, however – we're constantly making sense of the world by moving between past, present and future. The question is whether this is done intentionally or not. In the Challenge of Change resilience programme, intentionally giving attention to the past or the future is called reflection, while waking sleep is having attention snatched away. Reflection requires detachment, which means being able to maintain perspective, and the trap inherent in this process is attachment. A detached view of the past allows you to learn from experience, and a detached view of the future provides scenarios that can be explored for their likely implications. An attached view of past and future leads to regrets, guilt, and expectations based on hope or fear.
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